Whats wrong with a guy trying to convince a girl to have an abortion?

Now I would like honest opinions. I don't need to hear people who are so insanely biased they can't have an intelligent discussion freaking out. (The "Prolife" people who literally can't look at things from another prospective. And no I'm not referring to the Prolife people who can have an intelligent debate and at least consider the other side, I mean the ones that flip out anytime the word "Abortion" is brought up and call it murder, evil, immoral etc. [If those are your opinions back it up, and use more than a verse from the bible to do it.]) Ok, now that that's over time for the nitty gritty. I am male, and no I don't have a girl pregnant right now, this is simply a question that I came to from experiences with friends. Since I am a guy I do understand I can never see this from the womens perspective completely. Now, while doing some browsing I came across a similar question to this where a young man was asking how to convince his girlfriend to have an abortion. He stated she was being selfish etc. Instantly everyone in the community bashed him, and called him selfish etc. Now this could be true, he could only be thinking about himself. What about the other side though? I understand the child is in the woman's body, and that's the reason abortion is legal in the first place, because the woman may choose what to do with her own body. However, what if the kid who posted the question wasn't being selfish? Say they are both 18, they are ready to go to college and begin their lives. They have no help from their parents and don't have jobs. Now I understand it is possible to do this on your own, at 18, without a job. But, more than likely the kid will grow up in poverty. Oh wait, forgot to mention, the mom and dad aren't together. So now the child is growing up in poverty without having the support of both parents. Now there's also adoption as an option. Well, I know adoption can be wonderful for many parents and children alike but, who's to say the child doesn't grow up feeling like they weren't wanted? Like they were abandoned? What if the father of the child in question truly was thinking about the child, and how it might be better if the child never came into existance? Now on the other hand say the mother who wants to keep the kid only wants the child to secure a relationship with the father. The father doesn't want to be with her and she wants the kid simply to keep the father in her life. She is doing it for selfish reasons, and many people are saying it's the father who is being selfish?! In this situation it is my opinion that the father is perfectly right in trying to push abortion. Yeah it's living inside the mom, and yeah it's a hard choice for her, but did anyone ever consider that the father saying "have an abortion" has a lot going on too? I read a comment to that guy who asked abut convincing his girlfriend to have an abortion that said "The woman has to deal with it her whole life the man can just walk away from it!" Guess what, that's complete bull crap. Believe it or not guys have emotions too, and I think the majority of would be fathers who want to have an abortion probably deal with it their entire lives just as much as a woman would. I know this was more of an opinion than a question, but people need to open their eyes and see things from both prospectives. I'm interested to see other's opinions. Like I said any "OMG THAT'S MURDER" will be completely ignored, I'm only interested in intelligent responses.