Waiting on god or waiting on the rms titanic - which is a longer wait?

i have been waiting on god nearly 22 years to answer one request and honeslty really cant trust god to answer other requests - if he hasnt answered this one what makes me think he will answer another one - and please put the whining and complaining picket signs away - unless you have exeperienced the anguish - the discouragment and heartache of what it is - you cant talk and be credible - was my mistake waiting on god for all this time because honeslty i am going to miss out if not missed out on already - should there be a limit on how long a person waits on god before moving to plan b - to me unanswered prayer is not going to build faith in god and hasnt in my life - i feel as though when i want things to happen in my life - i have to make it happen as opposed to waiting for it to happen - whoever said good things comes to those who wait have never waited 22 years for one thing to happen - nothing is worth 22 years of waiting and have given up and moving to plan b - do people take matters in their own hands - give up on god because the wait has been too long - none of this we do things to hinder it - i think by me or anyone not talking action that hinders anything from happening - bottom line is it up to me to answer my own prayer - as cal said in titanic we do create our own luck and coach john wooden said luck is when preparation meets opportunity - as in one creates their own luck - do i need to stop waiting on god and rely on myself for the answer instead - because no is not an option and also i dont need more patience as 22 years gives me a doctorate in patience lol