Anyone else in the hell that is the 2ww?

I'm currently 9dpo, AF due in 5 days. The suspense is killing me! We've been ttc #2 but haven't bd'd much this month (only once on ovulation day!) as we've been moving house. Up until today I'd had a few promising symptoms (sore bbs, mild cramps) but today nothing :( Not even any cm. When i was pg with my little girl my cm was abundant! I kept thinking AF had arrived. So is anyone else in the 2ww and have you had any symptoms? When are you going to test?